I'm going to do something I don't usually do and take a moment to be serious. I know, I know boring right? I'm sorry. Hopefully next week I'll have something more lighthearted and fun to read. I won't blame you if you give up right now and just stop reading. For those of you who are being troopers and sticking it out with me for this one, I greatly appreciate it. You're great. Hey, you know who else is great? My family. I'm giving a talk in church on Sunday about families, so I've been thinking about them a lot lately, plus it's November and a season to be grateful. As a result, I've come up with some top reasons why my family is awesome.
#1: I have 8 amazing role models. That's right, EIGHT!! I used to only have 5, but then all my brothers decided that getting married would be a good idea, and three more amazing people were added to my life. I can't think of a time in my life where I have ever felt ashamed or disappointed to be a part of my family (well...except for maybe the time Dad decided to storm out on the court and take the ball from the referee during my basketball game in 5th grade. Love you Dad!). I've always had the greatest examples growing up in both my brothers and my parents. I've learned a lot from them over these last 20 years of my life and I now learn a lot from my brothers as I watch them raise families of their own. I don't think I'll ever stop learning from them. I can't wait until I start a family of my own and hope that I can be as great a mother as I my mom is, or be as loving and supportive as my dad is. Who knows, maybe I'll even be as smart as he is one day and know everything my kids will ever ask me. As for now, I'll sit back and quietly take notes so I can remember how to be just as good as all 8 of them.

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How could a girl not look up to these people? |
#2: I've never felt alone. How I got so lucky as to have such an awesome support system, I'll never know. What I do know is I'm incredibly grateful for everything they've ever done for me and continue to do. My family has been there through years of volleyball games, rash decisions, silly relationships, stressful schooling, and those lovely awkward teenage years where I knew everything there ever was to know about the world. Please, take a moment and visualize me as a stubborn, all-knowing, bratty preteen girl. Yikes! They stuck through it though and have supported me with every decision I've ever made. They were there when I decided I wanted to be a dancer and again when I decided I hated it. They were there that time I wanted to tryout to be an SBO in high school and hugged me as I bawled when I didn't make it. They were even there when I decided that I didn't want to do nursing anymore after having been so set on it for as long as I can remember. Never once did they tell me I was foolish, or get annoyed when I changed my mind twenty times. I can go to anyone in my family with anything that I might be worried about and they'll listen and help me through it. How lucky is that?
#3: They produce good looking children. Seriously though, look at these kids and tell me that doesn't make my family 10x cooler.
I'm lucky to have one niece here in Logan with me and play with her all I can. The other two live in Wisconsin 1,429.5 miles away from me. I miss them like crazy. Thank the stars for Facebook, Instagram, and Skype. It's going to be rough when Trevin leaves for med school this summer and takes Addie with him. Who is going to read books and sing Primary songs with me? Definitely time to start a niece and nephew fund so I can visit everyone.
#4: My family is forever. Most of the people who will read this already know that I'm a member of
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, but if you happened to come across this and have no idea who I am, I believe that my family will be together forever, even after death. I'm so incredibly thankful that I'll be able to have the wonderful relationship I have with them for eternity. I know I'll be able to see them again because of the covenants my parents have made in the temple and I can't wait to be reunited with my loved ones that have already passed away. My family brings me a joy that is unlike any other and I look forward to the day when I find a spouse whom I can spend the rest of eternity with.
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In front of the Brigham City temple with G&G Hanks |
I could go on with these reasons for ages, but I'll stop here since this post is getting long and I'm sure you're getting tired of me bragging about my family. I really am so blessed to be in such an incredible family. I am thankful each day for them and the things they do for me. If you happen to be family and are reading this, I love you. If you're just a friend and stuck through this whole thing, I love you too.